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Friday, February 11, 2011

Coping

The figure of Jeremiah on the Sistine Chapel c...Image via WikipediaCoping
Scripture not only depicts the problem of pressure experienced by God's servant: it also highlights ways of coping with the problem.  We have seen that the biblical record does not minimize the existence of pressure, or the value of it.  Certainly, the suggestion is to be found there that it is possible to 'solve' the problem of pressure for Christians by adopting some kind of life-style that would be free of any such pressure.  The Bible contains insights into various ways in which such pressure can be coped with, and even turned to profit.

1.  Name the problem

Biblical characters, on occasion, are described as enduring extreme stress.  For example, Elijah experienced sheer exhaustion after the Mount Carmel event (1 Kings 19).  Also, Jeremiah's outburst, claiming that at one point in his ministry he had enough and was near to breaking point (Jeremiah 20) illustrates the intensity of this experience: 'Cursed be the day on which I was born.  The day when my mother bore me, let it not be blessed!  Cursed be the man who brought the news to my father, "A son is born to you..."'.

In the New Testament record, Jesus is depicted as undergoing deep agony on the Mount of Olives prior to his arrest, and he begs his Father, 'My Father, if it be possible, let this cup (of suffering) pass from me...'  Also, Paul indicates by letter the sufferings he and his missionary companions had experienced in Asia:'... for we were so utterly, unbearably crushed that we despaired of life itself.  Why, we felt that we had received the sentence of death...'

While there are examples of biblical figures who apparently had no hesitation about articulating to God, and to others, areas of stress, modern Christians are often reticent to do the  same.  yet basic to all endeavors to cope with stress is the willingness to 'own' the stress: to recognize it with or without the help of  others, and to express it in some way.  To be able to name the problem is a significant undergirding factor which predisposes to healthy coping behavior.
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